You want a relationship? Are you serious?

Nov 18, 2013 Comments by

You say you want a relationship but is that really true? If you’re unsuccessful in the dating game, it could be that you are inadvertently sabotaging your own efforts to find love?

I’m a feng shui consultant and the number one reason clients consult me is to find a partner. They tell me about their dating disasters, the problems with their previous relationships and often they despair at their lack of success. They share with me their conscious intention: to find love. However, nothing seems to work and this may be the same for you too.

If that’s the case it could be that, energetically and unconsciously, you are saying a big NO to having a relationship.

So, how do you know if you are sabotaging your own efforts to find love? All you have to do is take a look at your bedroom. It can be very honest is expressing your real intentions towards love and relationships.

Here are some signs of self-sabotage:

  • Your bed is only big enough for you or pushed into a corner where only one person can get in and out of it.
  • If you do have space around the bed there is only a bedside table or light on one side.
  • The linen hasn’t been changed since…….?
  • There are candy/food/drink wrappers under/around/in the bed. This shows your nesting instincts.
  • Closets and draws are full to bursting with no space to accommodate anybody else.
  • Broken or unused stuff collects dust under the bed.
  • The bedroom is used as a laundry room/gym/office/den etc.
  • Artwork displays moody pictures of single figures indicating a solo energy rather than a relationship.

You’re probably getting the picture aren’t you? Your bedroom is saying this is about me, it is where I retreat from the world and be alone – there is no room for anybody else. In feng shui, your bedroom is the physical manifestation of your unconscious desires for a relationship. Does your bedroom support your dating efforts? If not try these tips to make your bedroom ready for romance.

  • Change your mattress. Sleepless nights, midnight tears and arguments with ex partners will be held emotionally in your mattress. A new mattress means a new start.
  • Make sure there is space on both sides of the bed which sets out the intention that this bed is for two.
  • Fit a solid headboard. This will support you whilst you sleep and improve the quality of your sleep which in turn improves your confidence and attractiveness to others.
  • Make space for somebody else. Clear a drawer or some hangers in your closet.
  • Clear any clutter and either repair or get rid of anything that is broken. This all acts as a metaphor for your love life. You don’t want it to be broken, cluttered or stagnant do you?
  • Keep the bed linen fresh. Just imagine that you get that gorgeous date back to your place: got to be prepared!
  • Ensure any imagery or artwork shows happy, couple images. Couples don’t need to be in the same picture. You could have a god and goddess in separate pictures but grouped together.

Just following these simple steps will align your unconscious intention with your conscious one. Happy dating.

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About the author

Jackie Notman is an intuitive advisor, coach and energy reader who works on an energetic level with individuals and businesses using tools such as Feng Shui, Numerology, Dowsing, Astrology, I Ching and the Tarot. Her book, The Feng Shui Guide to Love, Sex & Relationships, explores relationships on an energetic level and shows you how to apply the fundamentals of Feng Shui and eastern astrology to maximise your ability to have a satisfying and meaningful relationship that is right for you. www.jackienotman.co.uk.